Monday, August 13, 2012

Baby Post- Week 18

Here we are at week 18!

www.TheBump.com says you should look something like this:


It also says you're probably yawning, hiccuping, sucking your thumb, practicing swallowing, and moving around like crazy.  I was looking back at the pregnancy journal I kept for Cameron and read that I couldn't feel him moving until week 20...I've been feeling you since week 14!  I think you're going to be a busy little bee and give Cam a run for his money :}  Although, if you're any more active than Cam is when you're born, Mommy may have to hire a live-in nanny!

 I'm feeling pretty good this week...my cleaning and organize binge seems to have slowed a bit.  Oh well.  Your big brother is keeping me busy though. I've been having fun planning his 1st birthday party. The theme is a secret until we send out the invitations.  I'm sure there will be a big blog post about the party. I wonder what the theme of your 1st birthday will be...  

Maybe we should decide on the baby shower theme first...maybe I could have this cake:


Is that a a foot? Oh my, if the baby's foot is that big...

Or this one- a baby bum cake!



Kidding :}

Thursday, August 9, 2012

"It's OK" Thursday

So, (I think I start most of my posts with "so"...) as I'm getting a bit more involved in the blogging world- the blogs I follow now include more than just my friends' blogs- I've noticed this "It's OK" Thursday trend.  Every Thursday you sit down and write a list of things that are bothering you, but you use that time to take a breath, relax and say, "But it's ok."  I like this idea.  Once, several years ago when I was visiting my mom at the elementary school where she teaches, I saw a teacher in the hallway with one of her little students who was crying.  I overheard her tell him, "Just say to yourself, 'It's no big deal, it's no big deal.'"  I have no idea why he was crying or what the situation was, but I thought, ya know, that's good advice because, usually, it's not a big deal!  So ever since, I've tried to remind myself of that little phrase when I'm about to have a panic attack...it doesn't always work of course!  But I think it's a good little mantra.  Anyway, here's my list for this week:

It's OK...

that I have to clean up my kitchen again today after spending hours cleaning it yesterday, because I had some awesome friends over last night and had such a great time eating, chatting and laughing.

that we ran out of overnight diapers for Cameron and now have to go run an errand to get more, because I know it will help him sleep better (and it's a good excuse to go to Starbucks :} ).

that I've been a single mom for the past two weeks and still have two to go, because, well this one is hard!  But it's really helped me appreciate how much Josh does when he's home!

that Josh won't be back for another two weeks, because I still have a lot of cleaning to do! (well, I'd rather have him home, but since he has to be gone, he might as well come back to a clean house)

that Cam has been waking up three times every night, because it's the second trimester and that means that "it's ok" to have coffee in the morning! (although a full night's sleep is always preferable)

that I haven't worked on my diaper bag since Sunday night, because some friends are coming over tomorrow to work on our crafty things :}

to just sit, relax, blog and enjoy the quiet while Cam is asleep instead of trying to get a million things done.


Well, I think that's all for now...whew!  Being optimistic is hard...



On another note...Happy Birthday Mom!!!  :}  I hope you enjoy our favorite Italian place tonight...have fun! (that was only slightly sarcastic).  Love you! 


Monday, August 6, 2012

Baby Post- Week 17

Another week has gone by...we're getting close to the half-way point!  I don't really have too much to report. 

I've been feeling much better this week, thank goodness.  I've gotten a lot done.  The house is really shaping up, and I'm feeling much less stressed, and much more organized!  While cleaning each room I've been keeping track of what we'll be taking to Georgia with us, so hopefully the move won't be too chaotic.  We'll be leaving in just a few short months to go live with Grandma and Grandad while your Dad is gone.  They're really busy getting rooms ready for you and Cam. 

I've also been doing a good bit of sewing.  I finished two sets of potholders (I'll post pictures once the people they belong to have received them).  I finished your baby blanket, which I'm really proud of.  I would change a few things if I ever do another one, but I think it's really cute and will suit you just fine :}  I'm currently working on a diaper bag made from one of Dad's uniforms.  I got a lot done last night, but it was getting late and I got frustrated, so I had to stop!  I can already tell it's going to be way too small, but I'm sure we'll get some good use out of it anyway.  When I finish the bag and finish getting the house clean, I'm going to continue working on Cam's scrapbook.  He's 10 months old now, and I'm only on his first month!  Oops...I've got a long way to go if I want to finish his first year before your big arrival!  Then I can start on yours...I bet Grandma will help :}

Your Dad is still gone...he'll be home in a little less than 3 weeks.  I haven't been able to talk to him since Friday I think (and that was just a text).  Cam and I sure do miss him.  I'm sure he misses us too and that he'd much rather be here!  He's doing important training for his job that will help keep him and his soldiers safe, so I can't complain too much.

The big things in the news right now are Chick-fil-a (people are upset about finding out about certain organizations the company is supporting and contributing to), and the 30th Olympic Games in London.  Michael Phelps, the team USA swimmer, set a new record for receiving the most medals in Olympic history.  He won 22 during his career...the previous record was 17.  The USA gymnastics team won gold medals, and one girl on the team, Gabby Douglas, won gold for her individual performance- she's only 16 years old! 

We will hopefully find out if you are a boy or girl at our next appointment on September 2nd!  I can't wait!  Also, I can feel you move sometimes :}  I think I felt you as early as week 14, but it's hard to tell.  It's still very faint, almost like a tickle...but I'm pretty sure that's you!  I love knowing that you're getting bigger and stronger and that we're that much closer to meeting you :}

And just a reminder:

Monday, July 30, 2012

Baby Post- Week 16

Well, today marks week 16 of this pregnancy.  I feel bad because I haven't been keeping a weekly journal like I did with Cameron.  It's honestly been hard to think about doing- first, because Cam keeps me pretty busy, and second, because I guess I'm still kind of wary of "putting the cart before the horse," for lack of a better phrase.  I haven't even taken a pregnancy picture and it's month 4!  I don't think it's fair to the baby for me to be so afraid of something bad happening that I just brush this pregnancy aside and not have any record of it.  So, I've decided to start blogging once a week about the baby.  I know everyone has been inundated with pregnancy/baby pictures and announcements...it's just that time in our lives I guess (not too long ago everyone was getting married!)...but this is more for me and Josh and our kids.  In no way is anyone obligated to read my baby posts (unless you want to continue being friends...kidding!!). 


Here's a recap of the past 3 months:

How I've been feeling-


It hasn't been pretty :/  The sickness started around 6 weeks, and it's just been the past 4 days or so that I've been feeling better.  I finally feel like I can do more than just lay around all day (which is pretty difficult with a 10 month old...but I managed pretty well).  Even thought it wasn't terrible, I hope the worst is over!

My mood-



Yep, pretty much.  I've been in some of the worst moods ever...just ask Josh.  Actually, don't bring it up...I'm lucky he still loves me and talking about it too much might make him start to question his judgement. 

Cravings-
Sometime during the first couple of weeks I woke up thinking about a grilled bacon and cheese sandwich.  Josh had to go to the store to get bacon.  Soon after that, it was Red Lobster biscuits...but when do you not crave them- pregnant or not?!  Then, I didn't really want to eat anything for the next couple months.  I'd make dinner, which sounded ok when I started cooking, but then it just didn't look or smell appetizing at all.  I actually lost about 5 pounds during this time.  The only thing that sounded decent was salad...and I couldn't even think about the word "chicken." Ugh.  My appetite has come back some, but still not where it was with Cam when I wanted to eat anything and everything!  I have been wanting sushi a good bit, but I have to be careful which kind I get...I only get cooked salmon, crab, or shrimp, which is totally fine- I just can't have too much seafood.  I've also been eating a lot of BLTs with ranch. Yum!  Right at this minute, fried pickles sound really good.

Size-
It is very true that you get bigger faster after you've had a baby!  I think it's just  because I hadn't lost all of the baby weight.  Ha!  Oh well...but, I've been wearing maternity clothes since about 8 weeks maybe. I'll try to put up a picture for the post next week.

What we've been doing-
Not much.  We've just been trying to relax and spend time as a family as much as we can since Josh is going to be gone so much.  We've been watching a lot of TV: Hell's Kitchen, Master Chef, America's Got Talent and So You Think You Can Dance are our can't miss shows.  Cam has also started doing some fun things.  He can wave bye-bye and give a high five!  He definitely keeps us busy and entertained :}  And since Josh has been gone, I've been organizing, cleaning, and crafting.  He's been gone for 4 days out of around 30...can't wait til the end of the month!

Anyway, that's all I can think of for now...thanks for reading.  I'll leave you with this:


The caption on this one said, "What's pregnant about this picture?"




I think we'll do a nice family picture like this one...except my shirt will be down.  The bare belly is just too awkward.


*Last 3 pictures are from awkwardfamilyphotos.com

Monday, July 23, 2012

Projects, Purging, and Party Planning

Yes, I enjoy the occasional alliterative phrase...sorry :/  But these three things just happen to be my big plans for August.  I'm gonna have 5 whole weeks of just hangin' out with my favorite little munchkin.  The Hubs is leaving at the end of this week to go on a training exercise with his Brigade...it's essentially a practice deployment (only much, much shorter than the real thing, obviously!)  It's kind of a practice for me too; I'm pretty nervous. This will be the longest we've ever been apart.  But I started thinking about all the stuff I have to do to get ready for the next 3 months (I'm moving home in November).  On one hand, the deployment still seems like a while away, but on the other, it feels like time is slipping away pretty quickly. Anyway, I have a pretty big list, and I think it will keep me busy and help keep my mind off of Josh being gone, a little. 

One thing I'll be doing is going through all of our stuff.  We're planning on having a yard sale, probably sometime in October.  We're putting most of our things in storage while I'm in Georgia, and I want to get rid of a much as possible so we have less to move...so it's time to tackle the closets, drawers, and the catch-all table in our office.  This is probably the task I'm looking forward to the least, but I know I'll be glad I did it.

Next, I'm going to be planning a certain little boy's 1st birthday party!  I'm super excited about this!  Josh and I started brainstorming ideas this past weekend and came up with some great stuff. I think it's gonna be an awesome party...but I'm not giving away any spoilers :}

Finally, I have several sewing projects in the works.  The first is an easy pot holder...I had to read the directions about 18 times and finally had to ask my friend Kristy if I could see a picture of some she made so I could figure out how to make them!  I'm a visual learner.  But yesterday it clicked! I figured it out and I'm pretty proud of myself.  I think they're going to be really fun to make...and uper easy now that it makes sense!  I'll post pictures of mine when they're finished, but here's how Kristy's turned out:



I'm also planning on making the new baby a flannel blanket (we don't have any names for "new baby" yet...we'll let you know!).  I'm using a pattern from Do It Yourself Divas. I'm hoping it will turn out as cute as this:



And my most ambitious project is an ACU diaper bag made out of one of Josh's old uniforms.  I couldn't find an example of an ACU bag that I liked, so here's the pattern I'm going to base it on from Sew, Mama, Sew :



Oh yeah...and there's the Olympics! Go Team USA (and have fun in London...I'm only slightly jealous)!

Wish me luck!!

P.S. Happy 10 months to my sweet boy :}

Monday, July 16, 2012

You Shoulda Said Something! ~ Review of The Sushi Place

So, "You shoulda said something!" is the punchline of a joke my dad told years ago...to be honest, I don't even remember the joke! But the punchline has become a catchphrase in our family.  The gist of it is that if the individual had simply "said something," or spoken up, a whole lot of trouble could have been avoided.  I'm bringing this up because today, I did say something!  Unfortunately, I still had to deal with a good amount of trouble :/

Now, when I go to restaurants I hate having to tell the waiter that something about my order is incorrect...I usually just accept whatever it is that is wrong, like if I got fries instead of a baked potato, I'd just keep the fries and move on; the restaurant staff has enough to do without me complaining about something that isn't that big of a deal.  Josh and I love to watch shows with Chef Gordon Ramsay, especially ones where he sends in professional secret diners to evaluate different aspects of how a restaurant is operated.  The secret diners never have a problem sending back their food to get exactly what they ordered, and they emphasize that it is the restaurant's responsibility to make sure the customer is 100% satisfied every time they visit.  So maybe that has made me more bold when it comes to getting what I want when I go out to eat.  But regardless, I felt the need to speak up today.

Anyway, here's the story about my visit to The Sushi Place:

I decided that I'd go in for a "quick" lunch before I went grocery shopping.  I had Cam with me as my date :}  By the time we got to the parking lot he was asleep, so I put him in the stroller and thought, "Well, this will just be a quiet enjoyable lunch...in and out."  I walked in and was greeted and seated promptly and a girl came up to get my drink order.  A couple of minutes later a guy came to get my drink order; I told him the girl had already gone to get it.  Hmm, already some confusion among the staff.  After I got my water, it was a good while before the waiter came to get my food order (probably between 7 and 8 minutes).  I ordered one sushi roll which came with miso soup.  He brought my soup pretty quickly and came to pick up the bowl when he saw I was finished.  Then I waited more than 10 minutes before the waiter came over and apologized about the wait and told me my (one) sushi roll should be out soon...whew, quite a wait.  Maybe another 3 minutes passed and he brought out the sushi.  I ate a few pieces and discovered that the filling was not what I had ordered AND it had eel on top (the roll was fried, so it wasn't easy to spot at first).  I flagged down the girl who brought my water (who, by the way, was the one who filled up my glass every time...NOT my waiter) and asked her if my sushi roll was supposed to come with eel.  I didn't want to say anything if I had overlooked it while scanning the menu.  I wasn't going to say anything about the filling, but I really did not want the eel.  She said the menu did not say it came with eel and said she would have the chef make a new one promptly.  I went ahead and told her about the filling since she was going to have them make a new one anyway.  By the time Cam had awoken.  I gave him a bottle and some crackers to bide the time...another 5 minutes and she brought out my second roll.  This time the filling was correct, but once again, eel.  Really?!  I reluctantly told the girl about it when she came back over a minute later, and she said she'd get a manager if I wanted; I said ok, but that I was short on time.  After she walked away, Mr. Cameron shoved his hand in my bowl of soy sauce, bathing the table, himself, and my white shirt.  Awesome.  The waiter came over and apologized again and said they were making another one!  I said I didn't have time, to which he replied it was almost ready and he could put it in a to-go box for me.  I said fine, and about that time the manager came over.  She explained that the menu apparently had not been updated since the addition of the eel on the particualr roll of sushi I had ordered.  The chef was obviously aware of this, however neither the wait staff, nor the menu presented the change.  The waiter came over with the to-go box (which didn't include wasabi or ginger, if I may complain just a tad bit more...), and the manager told me everything was free of charge.  As it should be.  And thus concludes my "'quick" bite to eat that wasted over an hour of my day. 

After having said all that, one thing I cannot complain about is the attitudes of both the girl and the guy who waited on me, and the manager.  They were nothing but accommodating.  This is my third visit to The Sushi Place and, while not as good as our favorite place in Georgia, I will probably still go back, because the food and staff have been pretty good.  Long story short, update your menu and keep your staff informed!!!

Today, no one can tell me I shoulda said something!  But maybe I shoulda not :/

Thursday, June 28, 2012

On the Life of an Army Wife

It's hard to start writing a new blog post when you don't post regularly...there's just too much to write about!  But here goes...

I guess first and foremost it's time to share some pretty big news.  We're expecting again!  I'm close to 12 weeks and feeling pretty good.  The due date is January 14th.  It was so exciting, but really scary when we found out...but I've been gaining confidence every day about the health and growth of the baby.  Worrying about your pregnancy is completely normal, but a pregnancy after a miscarriage? It's been hard not to drive myself crazy!  But I've been praying a lot and really appreciate the prayers that have been said on my behalf.  We got an ultrasound done at 8 weeks and everything looked really good, which reassured me a lot.  The baby was a good size and had a strong heartbeat.  Here's the picture we got:




Now, having another baby is *super* exciting!  But having a baby while the hubby is deployed?  Whoa scary.  Of course we anticipated that this would happen (although no dates have been carved into stone yet)...we have a pretty good idea of the general time to expect his unit to deploy.  However, the thought of having a baby alone, and maybe more importantly, taking care of a newborn (and 16 month old) those first couple of months, started keeping me up at night.  I started trying to formulate a plan:  Hmm...I could go home to Georgia to have the baby and stay there for the first few months, then come back to El Paso.  Not possible- the maximum time you can leave your post housing is 30 days.  Ok, I could have my parents come out and stay with me for a week like they did when Cam was born.  Not a bad idea, but what about when they leave?  Can I handle that?  Now the desperation kicks in...maybe both my parents can quit their jobs and move to El Paso with me!  Yes!  Umm...NO, crazy person!  Then it hit me...why don't I just move back home for the whole deployment?!  I talked to my family over Skype and my Grandma actually started applauding when she heard I would be coming home! :}  So we all got really excited and started planning my trip.  Yes, it'll be difficult (we'll have to give up the house, put our stuff into storage, transfer insurance, etc.), but I know it will be worth it.  I've heard to not go home during a deployment because no one understands what you are going through besides other wives...but my family is SO supportive and understanding that I'm sure I won't have any issues with that. 

However, I have been having some anxiety about how the "Army Wife" will feel about it (and please don't think I mean anyone in particular - I have awesome, non-judgemental Army wife friends who I am sure will support my decision...I just mean the Army Wife "ideal" - what you think of when you think of an Army Wife).  I'm positive that this is a completely irrational thought, but I just feel like Army wives are supposed to be strong, independent and just deal with their husbands being gone, even if that means having a child and/or taking care of multiple children alone (I know several women who have done and will do this in the near future that I admire SO much).  Being and Army wife has made me so much more independent than I thought was possible, and I fully believe that I could do this by myself if I had to, but I can't help but feel like I'm taking the easy way out and that I'm being weak. But I guess the desire to be strong and independent is slightly overshadowed by my excitement at the thought of my family being able to be with my kids for more than a week at at time...and I KNOW that that is what I signed up for when I married a soldier, and I accept that and love him and this lifestyle dearly...but given the opportunity to be with family instead of 2,000 miles away while your husband is gone for a year, would you not take it?  I'd be crazy not to...but that's just, well, the way I see it :}